Meh, that's not all there is to life
Tsk. This should really go on my Livejournal. But...I'm starting to like my blog again, with all the customisation! Tsk. =\ Plus the fact this was like a fresh sheet. =O
Anyway. Stupid question to ask, but I seriously don't know the answer even though I did it myself. =\
Why the heck to people like to treat life like all they live for is a relationship? You like someone, he doesn't like you the same way, YOU'RE NOT GOING TO DIE.
Well, you are. But only if you let yourself. Waste away then, rot, who can you blame? Yourself, no one else.
Whilst my circumstances were largely different, this was a mistake I commited. Can't believe I let myself waste away like that.
Never again. Tsk. Not worth it. Must smile moar. Second greatest gift to someone mah. =X
Relationships aren't all there is to life! And I wish very much for people to be able to see that without having to take the detour I had to, but some people...just keep getting their hearts broken AGAIN and AGAIN within 2-3 months of the other, and it seriously makes you wonder, how serious are they? Not serious enough to stick with it, too serious resulting in emo. Or maybe they're just too busy wallowing in self-pity.
I won't deny it. I did that too. Tsk.
Never again.
Self-pity is one of the WORST things you can ever do to your body. Lamenting supposed losses, and how unlucky you are, and so busy lamenting are you that you fail to see the goodness that surrounds you.
So what if your feelings aren't reciprocrated? You won't die! I like someone, who knows I like him, and he doesn't return my feelings, but does it really matter? Do you see me whining about it?
Seriously, just because you like someone, doesn't mean he has to like you back and you two will end up together or "I will just dieeeeeee worhz"
Life is so much more than that. If only you let it be.
For 16 years of my life, I lived for the experience, I took risks, lived for so much. I let that stop, and I paid the price, and when I came out, a survivor somehow, I told myself,
never again.
Sometimes, in fact...most of the time, a fall isn't a bad thing. For it is only from failure that you can fly higher than ever.
You know how those shows always says, when a person who has lost before, and an undefeated champion face off, there's always a character who says, "He's going to lose sooner or later. Because he doesn't know defeat."
It actually makes a lot of sense. Failure
strengthens us. Falls teach us
courage to pick ourselves up.
Whether you choose to learn it or not is a different thing altogther.
Just...don't let your life waste away because of a relationship. If its yours, it'll come to you. It'll all work out for the better, if you just let it.
Uh. Pertaining to how some might say this is blind faith...
I'll explain next time. Imma gonna do my night training now. Remind me k. Thanks. (:
ps YOU: Haha. Don't misunderstand this post k. I like things just the way they are. ^.^ Wouldn't choose to change a thing right now. x)
And I'm glad you liked the present. ^_^ I'm good, I know you think so. Lets all say it together.
Ade is guuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuud. :D
Fly forth, guided by your heart ;
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